Facing
up to Reality Alice Eaton
talks to Toyah Willcox about punk, reality TV and
her recent facelift
Most
women would rather die than go public about any
procedures they may have had at the hands of
their plastic surgeon - but not Toyah
Willcox.
Unlike
many of her contemporaries in the showbiz world
who hotly deny any subtle touching up on Mother
Nature's behalf, when Toyah decided to go under
the knife for what she says was a much-needed
facelift, she wasn't content with confessing the
fact to a few close friends over lunch. She wrote
a book about the whole experience and, in the
weeks following the operation, was frequently
quoted on television and in the tabloids
extolling the overwhelming benefits the procedure
has had in her life.
This
typical unveiled openness from the one-time punk
princess is what promises to make An Evening with
Toyah Willcox, being held this month at North
Finchley's artsdepot, of which she is a patron,
an event full of revelations and juicy
gossip.
"I
always knew that I would have surgery from when I
was a teenager," explains 47-year-old Toyah,
when I call her Midlands home to find out more
about the upcoming engagement.
"I'd
wake up in the morning feeling fantastic and
would go to the mirror and the person staring
back looked like someone who hadn't slept for a
month. I have a lot of energy that is
disproportionate to my age, and my face and the
way I was feeling were growing apart at a rate of
knots," she laughs.
She
admits the facelift has completely changed her
life but is careful to point out that her motive
for writing the book, entitled Diary of a
Facelift, was not to encourage others to go down
the same path, but to give an honest account of
the whole procedure, stitches and all.
"I
work in an industry where I don't know anyone who
hasn't had something done, but even my best
friends don't admit to it. There is a lot on
television about plastic surgery but no-one has
ever asked the patient what it is actually like.
The book is all about getting the body ready for
major surgery as well as the recovery afterwards.
I know a number of doctors who have actually
given the book to people who are having major
organ surgery as it shows them how to prepare for
it and how to achieve maximum
recovery."
Toyah
has also had a huge response from women who have
already had plastic surgery as well as those
thinking of taking the plunge.
"I
have had letters from women who have found it a
huge relief to read that it is usual for the skin
to take ten weeks before it is back to normal as
there are times when you think you are never
going to look normal again. I have also had women
who wanted to know what it would be like to have
a facelift and have read the book and decided
against it, which is also a positive
outcome."
Although
Toyah's experience with plastic surgery has been
a completely positive one, she is quick to speak
out against young girls changing their shape to
suit the industry.
"For
me it was a completely personal choice - I
couldn't live with myself. But I do have a
problem with young girls having surgery to
achieve bigger busts and having their skin pulled
around before they are fully developed. This is
the reason why we need to be more open about
everything we do to ourselves."
Despite
this conviction, Toyah doesn't intend to go into
too much detail about her surgery on the actual
evening, mainly because she says a lot of the
details may be too graphic for some audience
members.
"I
experienced no pain from the surgery but some
people have actually passed out when I have gone
into details so I am going to be
careful."
There
is no shortage of other material to go on when it
comes to Toyah's career. Since springing onto the
70s punk music scene as a fresh-faced singer with
spiky pink hair and an attitude to match, Toyah
has never looked back. Hit records followed,
including the aptly named Sheep Farming in
Barnet, and she was soon to be seen in a number
of prestigious stage and screen roles, including
memorable appearances in cult films Jubilee and
Quadrophenia, work with the Royal Shakespeare
Company, as well as sharing the screen with
Hollywood greats Katherine Hepburn in The Corn is
Green and Sir Lawrence Olivier in Granada TV's
film version of The Ebony Tower.
More
recently, Toyah took the title role in the stage
musical, Calamity Jane, on London's West End, and
young parents and their offspring may be more
familiar with the voice of Toyah offering the
calming goodbye in the popular CBeebies series
Teletubbies.
Toyah
puts her diverse career down to persistence and
self-belief.
"I
am incredibly proactive," she admits.
"There
is a trait among actors to have too much pride to
actually go out and get work. My agent says he
has never known an actor like me. I have no
qualms about calling up a TV company and asking
if they have got anything for me. People
generally have preconceptions of other people and
this is a way of getting rid of them, otherwise I
would have for ever been seen as a punk
rocker."
It
is this tenacity that saw Toyah fighting for
survival in the ITV reality show I'm A Celebrity,
Get Me Out Of Here!
"I
absolutely loved the first series of I'm A
Celebrity so I got in touch with the producers
and asked them, if they were ever doing it again,
to consider me."
However,
it proved to be more of a challenge than she
realised.
"It
was incredibly hard because we were hungry and
that drives you mad," she remembers.
"I
normally eat five times a day but we were being
fed once a day and they took away any fruits or
plants from the jungle so we couldn't even forage
for food. It is very hard to stay civil when you
are hungry and I had to learn to control my
temper as all I wanted to do was eff and blind
and smash the place up. If I had known I was
going to be that hungry, I might have thought a
bit more before volunteering myself but I am
still glad I did it."
With
so many different career paths trodden, from
actor, presenter, singer to reality TV star, it
is difficult to pin down the real Toyah and that
is exactly the result she hopes to achieve.
"The
industry is so corporate and the moment I feel I
am conforming and fitting into the ideal', I take
a job that goes against the grain. I love doing
different things and am comfortable presenting
anything, from sex to religion."
So
what is she most proud of?
"I
am not a retrospective person - I get up in the
morning and deal with what I have to do. I don't
operate through pride, I operate through zest for
life.
"But
if I am proud of anything, it is of still being
around."
An
Evening with Toyah Willcox is on Sunday October
16 at 8pm at artsdepot, Tally Ho Corner, North
Finchley, London N12. Call the box office on 020
8369 5454 or visit www.artsdepot.co.uk
Hendon
Times
13th October 2005
Thanks to Michael Cooney
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